Wednesday, 5 December 2012

Dream BIG!

A lot of people think that when they see themselves in a big way it is pride.No,it isn't,it is called high self esteem.That is, you can esteem yourself lowly or higly.What then is self esteem?.It is simply the way you see yourself as compared to others-'others' may be a situation,people etc.When you don't see yourself as equal to or above others then,you are said to have low self esteem and vice versa. Research has shown that the way an individual see themselves has a psychological effect on them and affects attimes their IQ and their interraction with people.People who don't think big most often do not go far and do not achieve much.They might do well initially but they will definitely not go far because they don't believe they could.Their is this general saying around the world from one generation to another that;youths are the leaders of tommorrow,and John C. Maxwell says that leadership is influence.Hence no one with low self esteem can assume a leadership role because they don't even belief they are equal to others let alone to have inflence over them. If we then as individual,organisation,government body,nation keep-up with this mentality where will it take us? To change your mentality somethings must change about you.First,you must determine in your heart to be great;the heart is very powerful-whatever you store in it is transfered to the brain which in turn processes it.Secondly,beleive in yourself;you must see yourself as able though the circumstance around you may be contrary.Thirdly,make friends that are achieves,friends who are confident,in themselves and in you;friends who can motivate you and encourage you.Lastly,take steps;though you may fall several times but, as you rise and try again your feet get more firm on the ground. These might seem so easy but sincerely it requires hard work;gold does not shine in a day,there are processes involved.Hence,laziness the mightiest enemy of greatness.You are your dream;DREAM BIG.

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